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My husband and I have been married for ten years, he has been in the FDNY for 15 and worked for Buffalo State for ten years with a break in service between the two. A few years ago, a bill was passed that he could by back the ten years he worked for in Buffalo. So, he paid for those ten years, which was over 13,000, which was paid for out of his pension. This means at 20 years when he can retire from the FDNY. He is retiring at 30 years. So my question is, how many years of his pension should I get?

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I am 59 years old, and my husband and I have been unofficially separated for 20 years. We both retain ownership in our home on Long Island, although I live there and pay all mortgage payments, bills, etc. He was having an affair that broke up our marriage, and he is still with that woman. I am also residing with someone. We have three grown children. I am earning approximately 55,000 a year, and he is making about 80,000. We file our taxes together. My 401 is vested at about 40,000 and his over 100,000. I have no other asset, and he does have to help me financially as my mortgage payments are very high. I do not want to sell my home, and he has said he would never ask for that. I am the recipient of his insurance policy and 401 upon his death. He is also mine. Right now, he has met another woman of 42 years of age who is insisting he divorce. If we decide to do this, what are the repercussions to me? Would I be entitled to any alimony, share in 401, etc.? We are currently married for 40 years, and if I have to, I will contest this divorce.

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I’m writing to inquire about two things. First- my husband (of 20+ yrs) and I want to get an amicable and uncontested divorce- and we are both residents of NY. My husband said that he would agree to any ” reasonable” request I ask… plus I want to leave the state of NY permanently. Hobbies is an officer in the FDNY, and I have been unemployed for many years -being a homemaker and raising our daughter, who is now a legal adult. However -I did work for two years (2001-2003) but had three heart attacks – now living with Congestive Heart Failure, ACS, and COPD after stent implants and a triple bypass. We own our co-op outright. In addition to a fair financial amount, I have discussed with him -plus a monthly allowance(which I am sure he will agree with). What else should I consider?(ie: his FDNY pension, any other pension plans he may have, medical & prescription plan (although I plan on moving immediately to another state after divorce),and will I still be eligible to collect on his social security when he and I are of age – even though he is 54 and I am almost 50(if I live long enough I am unable to collect SS disability as I did not pay into social security since 1992.)? This is not something that just came over us overnight- it has been in the making for the past two years, and although we live under the same roof- we sleep in separate rooms. *****Also, what would the legal fees for a situation such as this amount to in total for both parties- and do we each need a lawyer or can we just have one?

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In a divorce, what are the percentages in NY my wife is entitled to from my 401k?

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I wanted to ask a question about my divorce. I was married to my ex-wife for five years, ten months. I know I have to give her a part of my pension, I’m a police officer for NYPD. How much would I have to give her, and is it for the rest of my life?

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