I’m writing to inquire about two things. First- my husband (of 20+ yrs) and I want to get an amicable and uncontested divorce- and we are both residents of NY. My husband said that he would agree to any ” reasonable” request I ask… plus I want to leave the state of NY permanently. Hobbies is an officer in the FDNY, and I have been unemployed for many years -being a homemaker and raising our daughter, who is now a legal adult. However -I did work for two years (2001-2003) but had three heart attacks – now living with Congestive Heart Failure, ACS, and COPD after stent implants and a triple bypass. We own our co-op outright. In addition to a fair financial amount, I have discussed with him -plus a monthly allowance(which I am sure he will agree with). What else should I consider?(ie: his FDNY pension, any other pension plans he may have, medical & prescription plan (although I plan on moving immediately to another state after divorce),and will I still be eligible to collect on his social security when he and I are of age – even though he is 54 and I am almost 50(if I live long enough I am unable to collect SS disability as I did not pay into social security since 1992.)? This is not something that just came over us overnight- it has been in the making for the past two years, and although we live under the same roof- we sleep in separate rooms. *****Also, what would the legal fees for a situation such as this amount to in total for both parties- and do we each need a lawyer or can we just have one?