I cannot overemphasize the need to use experienced matrimonial counsel when dealing with divorce or separation matters.
Assuming that all of your papers were in order, and your spouse was served correctly, and the time has elapsed for her to answer, you can make a motion for a default judgment. Divorce and separation are too important to be left to self-help.
If you are living in the New York City metropolitan area, please call me at 212-370-1660 to discuss the matter at greater length.
Leonard M. Weiner, Esq./Divorce Solutions