If your husband filed in the New York State , you will be subject to New York state laws. However , if he is a resident of Florida , and has been living there for over a year, and you are living outside of New York as well, New York should refuse jurisdiction of this matter. Based on information you provided, it seems that Florida would be the proper jurisdiction, not New York.
With regard to the vehicle, as well as any other assets that were acquired during the course of the marriage, you should have an approximately 50 percent interest in such assets.
With regard to spousal support, if your husband has been supporting you during the course of your marriage and you are not gainfully employed or are not capable of being employed presently, the court will generally provide you with some spousal support , and the request that an automobile be included in such support should be requested at such time from the court.
I strongly suggest you contact , an attorney-mediator, experience in matrimonial matters in your jurisdiction , who can help you go to resolve these matters so that you will not have to go to court and incur major legal bills and emotional stress.
Leonard M. Weiner, Esq./Divorce Solutions