Question #105: GROUNDS: My husband separated from me 3 times for a period of 1 year the first two times and going on 2 years the 3rd time. He separated from me March 2005 after I gave birth 5 months prior. Within the last 3 months we have had martial relations, but no discussion of reconciling. He has told me that it’s over, he doesn’t want to come back. I already obtained custody of our daughter and already obtained a support order, which he has been paying. My question is: Can I file for divorce with grounds of constructive abandonment? Or does the fact that we had sexually relations terminate those grounds? Will I have to wait a period of time (1 yr) without sexually relations with him in order to use this grounds for our divorce, or are their any other options. Thanks for any advice.