Question #56: My husband just served me with a UD-4 form or summons for divorce. He had some one else delivered it. We are getting divorced by mutual agreement. Child support, custody, visitation have been discussed. We were married for 22 years, but he abandoned me 15 years ago. Now, I want to know if I have to appear in court within the first 20 days of receiving this form? What does DRL Section 170 subd. mean? I want to keep his last name because all my paper are under his last name. What do I have to do to keep it? Will I be entitled for alimony money? In the summons, he claimed abandonment of the Plaintiff by the Defendant, What does this mean? How can it affect me? It was not discussed in the agreement.