Question #15: My husband and I were married in February 1994 in Tennessee. We went our separate ways in that same year but neither one of us started the divorce proceedings. It is now 4 years later and I have resided in New York for over 2 years and he in California. We have not spoken or seen each other since 1995. I don’t know where to get the ball rolling to start the divorce proceedings. I just want this to be over. Any information you could provide me would be very helpful and appreciated.