My wife and I have been married for over 40 years. Last year, out of the blue, she first asked for a legal separation, and soon after mentioned a divorce. I have no idea what may have precipitated this; I am guessing that an affair may have been involved based on her and the suspected party’s actions and comments. A comment like” I didn’t think you would care” almost sounds like an admission, but she has steadfastly denied this. She has been reading Stephanie Marston’s book, “If Not Now, When?” which never leaves her side. (I question some of the advice given in this book.) She wants to sell our home and property and split all our retirement savings. My question is, can she legally get a divorce and walk away with half of our retirement funds that we worked so hard to get? My wife never had an income-producing job.
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