You should mediate rather than litigate your divorce. It will save you, time, money and lots of aggravation.
At such mediation you can work out a fair division of the assets and decide the custody questions as well as the fair amount of child and spousal support you should pay.
You have a good chance of getting custody of the children based on the limited information you have provided and should not give up your fight for custody.
Try to find an experienced matrimonial, attorney-mediator in your area who is familiar with your local courts.
Leonard Weiner, Esq./ Divorce Solutions