In NY, to get an annulment, you must have specific grounds and be able to provide testimony from a witness to substantiate your claim.
Fraud is one of the acceptable grounds, but you will have to substantiate that even before you got married she never really intended to remain married and had some ulterior motive for going through the ceremony or she lied about wanting to have children when she did not, etc.
Perhaps you can file for an annulment in Holland, where the requirements may be easier to meet.
If not, you can file for divorce in NY.
Do not leave the matter go on without resolution. Take care of it now correctly with an experienced matrimonial attorney so you can get on with your life
without having it come back to haunt you later.
Leonard Weiner, Esq./Divorce Solutions