You do not indicate in what state you are living. From the information you provide, you would not technically satisfy the criteria for abandonment iN.Y.NY state. If you and your wife agree to divorce, we could find suitable grounds upon which to base the divorce. Having a child will not impair your ability to divorce but does raise issues regarding child custody, child support, and visitation. If you are located in the NYC metro area, please call me at 212-370-1660 to discuss the matter further.
Leonard M. Weiner, Esq / Divorce Solutions