You may be able to convince the court that you are having sole custody of the children and remaining in the family home is in the best interests of the children based on the fact that your wife has been cheating on you and the family continuously over the past six years, and does not seem to be acting responsibly. It will all depend on the judge’s opinion.
I strongly suggest that you consider divorce mediation as opposed to litigating this matter in court. In mediation, you and your spouse will be able to decide just how to manage your affairs without having a judge who does not know you or your family intervene in your personal matters.
If you are living in the New York City metropolitan area, please call me at 212-370-1660 to arrange for us to meet together to discuss this matter at greater length.
Leonard M. Weiner, Esq./Divorce Solutions