Check with your local land recording office to see exactly how the property is held.
You can check by your name and your husband’s name or by lot and block number.
If you move out w/o an agreement in writing, you would be abandoning the marital home.
Do not leave the house until you have settled the ownership issue and have an agreement in place regarding the division of your marital property
And the divorce.
Of course, if there is physical abuse involved, you should leave and deal with the problems of ownership later.
If you are living in the NYC metro area, please contact me to discuss mediating your divorce.
Leonard M. Weiner, Esq/Divorce Solutions