Question #57: I have been married for 4 years. My husband and I have been separated for close to 3 years now. I moved in with my mother 3 years ago because he is in the military and was stationed on a ship. We have a 4 year old son and no real assets. My husband isn’t ‘sure’ he wants to continue our marriage so I asked him for a divorce. I don’t know if he has been unfaithful or not and when I mentioned divorce he seemed hesitant. I’m not sure I’m willing to allow him custody and how this should be handled. I would appreciate some expert advice. Thanks

You have a child and you owe it to him to try to preserve your marriage if you can. Try going to a marriage counsellor with your husband to see if the marriage can be saved. If it cannot,and you are living in the NYC metro area, give me a call at 212-370-1660 and we can discuss mediating the divorce.
Leonard Weiner, Esq. /Divorce Solutions