If you are both in agreement regarding the need to divorce, it is possible to get a divorce without having to wait a full year.
New York State, however, requires grounds and therefore you will have to select the most benign grounds upon which to file for divorce.
If you are located in the New York City metropolitan area, please call me at 212-370-1660 to arrange for a meeting to mediate your divorce. The matters are too serious to be left to self-help, and require the expertise of an experienced matrimonial attorney.
Leonard M. Weiner, Esq./Divorce Solutions