Question #236: I have been married for 2 months now, just before the 2 month mark of the marriage I came home to find my husband had quit his job, taken the money in the bank account and packed some things and left. It’s been a week now and I still haven’t heard from him at all. He left his phone at home so I have no way of contacting him at all. I don’t know where he is. I’m not sure if I should go to file for divorce or a legal separation at this point because I really don’t know what is going on. But even if I did file how would he sign anything when I do not know where he is to send him papers to sign? Does NY state make you go to mediation before granting a divorce? Do I need to be in contact with him in order to get this straightened out? Thank you