You can file in the state where your husband is residing or in the state where you reside. Each state has its own jurisdictional requirements regarding length of time you must be a resident of such date in order for it to have jurisdiction. Consult with the county clerk in which you reside to find out how long you have to live in the jurisdiction in order for you to file for Divorce.
Leonard M. Weiner, Esq. /Divorce Solutions